My first post

Well, I guess I'll just start with today's happenings. I'm sure I will ad my background as I post more and more

My boys see their Dad every other weekend and every Wednesday overnight.
Thus being Thursday, Dad dropped them off to the sitter's this morning. I received a text from him stating My oldest didn't get his medicine today because the medicine box was empty (my oldest has ADHD). Knowing I put medicine in the pill box, I told him this. He stated it was empty. I called the day care lady to verify. She stated she saw the medicine in the pill box yesterday when she took out the boy scout money I put in his bag.
So, wondering what happened to the pills since yesterday, I called my mom since she was off work today to see if she could drive the 15 miles to my house to pick up the pills for my son and drop them off to the school.
Day care lady called today after my son got home from school to inform me that the pills are in his bag untouched.
Instead of lying to me because he forgot to give his son his needed medicine, he could have called the school (I'm sure he doesn't have their phone number in his phone though) and told them he needs to take his medicine, which is in his bag. BUT that would make him look bad instead of me.

YESTERDAY:
Was donuts for dad's at school. It's where the dad's take their kids to school and have breakfast with them before school starts. I dropped the kids off 40 minutes early to day care so he could pick them up in time to take them to this. Half way to work, my day care lady calls me to inform me dad has yet to show up...my oldest is crying, and doesn't even want to go to school anymore. I tell her to call their dad and see if he is coming. when she calls me back she tells me it sounded like she woke him up and his exact words were "oh, was that today?" even though she reminded him about this Monday ( 2 days earlier).
i sent a text to him letting him know how upset my oldest is. i never hear back from him, but after my oldest gets back from school that afternoon, he tells me that he ate donuts by himself and when did dad showed up, he didn't eat with him, was on the phone the whole time and didn't talk to him.